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Episode 19 – Dr Sabrina Jackson – Tips For Single Mothers Raising Black Males

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Episode Summary

In this episode of I AM A FATHER, Erv sits down for a conversation with Dr. Sabrina Jackson, a mother of one son. She is also the Co-Owner at Essential Colors, Keynote Speaker, Master Trainer, and TV/Radio Personality Life Coach. Dr, Sabrina talks about the four colors and what they represent in the Bible and real-life parenting. She also shares some insights on her book: He Is Not a Statistic. The episode is filled with lessons on how single mothers can raise black males with the qualities to survive and thrive in this world.

Key Quotes and Highlights

● “Most of the time, we think that someone else is the problem while it is us with the problem.”
● “The main problem people have is other people.”
● “I like colors because colors are easy to remember.”
● “Christ is the only perfect brand of all four types of colors.”
● “The more blended you are, the better you are in navigating all your relationships and not just the ones that are easy for you.”
● “When you are saturated in one area, you are going to be weak in the other area.”
● “You got to have a little bit of everything.”
● “We all have the four colors within us. They are just at different levels.”
● “You can’t draw people while you are repelling them.”
● “You are designed to pastor different kind of people.”
● “As a parent, it is important to know your child.”
● “As a parent, it is your responsibility to introduce your children to God.”
● “When you are by yourself, and you are afraid, you may do something that you may not normally do.”
● “Everybody wants to be loved. In order to have true love, you need to have vulnerability and compassion.”
● “It is wrong to expect rational behavior out of irrational people.”

Timestamps of Main Points and Questions

● The origin of Dr. Sabrina Jackson [03:14]
● Sabrina explains that she is From Michigan, where all the singers come from, and all the cars were created.
● The central colors that Dr. Sabrina created [04:20]
● She narrates that the colors represent the body of Christ.
● The credibility behind true colors [05:30]
● She explains that true colors is a model that Don Lowry created. He took another model created by another man called David because David used the Greek methodology.
● Life of balance and moderation [08:59]
● Dr. Sabrina explains that when you are saturated in one area, you are going to be weak in the other area. To enjoy and live life the best way possible, you need to be really balanced.
● What the colors represent [09:48]
● Dr. Sabrina explains what the colors represent, both in the bible and real-life parenting.
● The color scheme for different types of fathers [13:42]
● Sabrina explains that there are blue, green, orange, and gold fathers. All with different traits.
● About the book: He is Not a Statistic [17:47]
● Sabrina dives deep into the book to explain the twelve laws of single mothers raising black males.
● First law: Train up a child [22:05]
● Sabrina explains that as a parent, it is your responsibility to train your children good behavior and introduce them to God.
● Law two: Discover your son’s passion and use it to your advantage [23:51]
● Sabrina narrates that you have to find out what your children love. They may not love what you love.
● Law three: Never say the father is at fault [28:31]
● She explains that it is your fault that he is the father. It was your choice to be with that person.
● Law Four: Be an example of real-life [30:17]
● As a parent, you need to be an excellent example to your kids.
● Law five: Demand and give respect [32:42]
● Sabrina explains that respect is a huge thing for boys. A lot of relationships break because of a lack of respect.
● Law six: Teach what it means to be a black man in the society [38:59]
● She explains that we live in a society that is racist and disrespectful to black men.
● Law seven: Infuse the concept of coachability, confidence, and compassion [43:06]
● Law eight: Make sure education is important to him [49:53]
● She explains that, in order to survive in this crooked world, you need to be educated.
● Law nine: Use intellect to handle conflict [51:08]
● She explains that we will have conflicts as people, but you don’t have to be aggressive.
● Law ten: Be a leader [01:01:49]
● Don’t allow your son to be carried with the wind or crowd.
● Law eleven: Obtain a positive male support system [01:06:50]
● Sabrina explains that a black woman with a son needs a huge black man.
● Law twelve: Model and teach effective communication [01:12:05]

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