Episode 24 – Chad Gaffney discuss Fatherhood Paradigm: The Mindset You Need to Have to Be a Father

“The only thing I try to make sure is that whatever they (his kids) do, they do to the best of their ability and just trying to excel at it,” Chad.

“When you have kids you can’t put all your attention into one kid because the other one is going to lack that attention and they gonna start feeling some type of way about it.”

You can’t raise your kids the same way cause each is different.

“Once you make that baby its no longer about you. You have to discipline yourself to make it not about you.”

“If you got a friend that’s not a good father or he doesn’t take time with his kids, or he never talks about his kids, you got to have a conversation about that. You will be doing a disservice to him if you dont step the conversation to him.”

“Growing up easy and not learning lessons mkes you a foolish adult cause now as an adult, you do stuff you don’t know better than doing.”

“You can always find an answer to what you looking for but you just got to look for it.”

Mindset You need to have

You have to be someone willing to give up his time, resources, and energy to be a good father.

You have to be someone who will do anything for his children.

You have to be someone who is willing to sacrifice himself for the sake of being a good father.

You have to be someone who will put your child’s needs before your own.

Qualities Of A Good Father

Be responsible.

Be a provider.

Be selfless.

Obedience.